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Now from my understanding, a wedding is a celebration of two people coming together in holy matrimony, or in simpler terms, two people who love each having a ceremony to celebrate their commitment or something along them lines am I right?
I also know that the wedding is catered more towards the bride and that is fine. Now most weddings I know of when the wedding starts the groom is waiting patiently abortions at the altar for the bride....(and everybody before that.)
However, in my case I want to be a groom that walks down the aisle with the wedding party. Now my reason for this is because I already know that the wedding is more towards the female, abortions but I feel that just standing up there makes me look like the smallest character in this wedding scenario other that saying I do and kissing the bride.
Heck the bridesmaids and groomsmen get more attention. I feel more like a spectator abortions than an actual participant. Now don't get me wrong. I do not want the attention all on me, I still want the bride to have her moment of shine... I just want to do something that will have me remembered for more than waiting for the bride with a smile.
You, sir, ARE AN IDIOT!!! Nah, just kidding. We know you're a little sensitive about the issue, so we wanted to be delicate. (Really. We're kidding. It's not a bad idea. You can remove your fist from the monitor now.)
Sure, perhaps your idea is a little unconventional, but only the stodgy traditionalists will really abortions give a shit. Most people will say, Ahhhhhhwwww... he's with his mother ! That's what makes this wacky idea acceptable. If you just walked down the aisle by yourself , it would smack of arrogance. But walking with Mom? Suddenly you're a big teddy bear.
In the traditional scenario, you have more spotlight than you think. When you're standing at the altar with a goofy grin on your face, it's a long, loooooooong time on the pedestal. In reality it's seconds but it will feel like hours. Until the procession starts, all eyes are on you. You'll feel it.
To clarify: we are not suggesting that you abandon your idea. But it's worth reevaluating your perspective that you are the "smallest character" abortions in the wedding. When you're standing by the altar, you'll feel like you're exposed to the world. And you are.
I don't know if this is a regional thing or not, but almost all of the weddings I have been to recently have started with the groom escorting his family to their seats. Always his mother (with dad close behind), and I have been to a few where the groom went back and walked his grandmothers down the aisle, and then the rest of the wedding party followed. It was nice, respectful, and definitely didn't seem out of place.
I hate to be honest in this instance. I'm usually very non-traditional and progressive, abortions but if I saw this at a wedding, I would think it was a weird mama's boy type thing. I'm confused about this need for more attention. By virtue of being one of the two people getting married, the groom is automatically abortions the biggest or second biggest figure of the entire day, regardless of how he walks (or doesn't walk) in. A lot of people look to the front to see the groom's reaction throughout the processional. After reading this, I am curious as to how the mother of the groom and the bride get along.
Dunndolo's abortions idea is not that odd...when my son was married three years ago, both my husband and I walked him down the isle before any of the other wedding party. We hugged him at the front of the church, left him at his designated abortions spot and went to our seats. It was very touching!
the groom walking down the aisle with his mom or both his parents is actually the norm in many cultures, (the most common one being Jewish). The processional starts off with the groom being escorted by both parents abortions to the front of the aisle, then the bridesmaids and groomsmen and then the bride. In fact many weddings i've been to lately have had the groom walking down the aisle. So if this is what you want to do go for it and don't listen to the nay-sayers. this is not revolutionary but any means.
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